At the time of writing this, we’re in the throes of the Coronavirus pandemic. Millions of people have been sent to work from home. Several are asking themselves if they could continue working from home forever. The brave few are wondering if they can take it to the next level: working from anywhere forever. In other words, people are considering becoming a digital nomad more than ever before.
While ‘digital nomad’ might conjure up images of millennials working on beaches, there’s so much more to it than that. The good news is, there’s no one cookie-cutter answer to ‘how to be a digital nomad’. However, I’d argue that there are a few keys to digital nomad success that people should know about before deciding to leave the 9 to 5 life in pursuit of eternal working holidays.
What is a Digital Nomad?
In short, a digital nomad is a remote worker. If you work from home, in theory, you’re a digital nomad already. However, more people would add on that digital nomads also travel while working.
How much do they travel, exactly? As much or as little as they want.
On one end of the spectrum, a digital nomad might be a parent that travels with their family and works as they travel. On the other, it might be someone that sleeps in a different bed every week, traveling to new, exotic places as often as they can.
More often, a digital nomad is someone that works full time and stays in places for a few weeks to a few months at a time.
Point being – anyone can be a digital nomad any way they want. It’s just important to know why you want to be one, and to do it in a way that works for you.
After I became a digital nomad, I spent a ton of time hiking, road tripping, and with my family
Why I became a digital nomad
When I was in college, I was recommended a book called the 4-Hour Workweek by Tim Ferriss. The book changed the way I thought about a lot of things, including how I envisioned my future of work. I had spent the summer after my freshman year living and working abroad, so I knew that was possible. However, the 4-Hour Workweek led me to realize ‘work’ didn’t have to be in a single place.
To be clear, I didn’t know what I wanted to do. I did know what lifestyle I wanted to have.
Read that again. I had figured out (a lot earlier than most) that my happiness wasn’t going to be found in a cubicle. My idea of working was not college –> work –> retire. Instead, I wanted to enjoy my entire life, and take short ‘retirements’ at my discretion.
I didn’t want to retire in the sense that I stopped working until I ran out of money. Instead, I decided that I wanted to work to live, and that my lifestyle was going to change and flow with me. My plan was to read often, work as much as I needed to, and chase ideas.
The good news is, that’s exactly what I’m doing now. It took me five years and finally making the jump to becoming a digital nomad, but I got here. At least I didn’t wait until I was 65.
A lot of my fun days are punctuated with work stuff. It’s all about balance.
5 keys to successfully becoming a digital nomad
Okay, so, how does one become a digital nomad? That’s easy. You take your computer and go somewhere. You continue to work and live wherever you want.
Like almost anything, there are good ways, bad ways, and better ways to do things. After meeting thousands of digital nomads in the past several years, here are a few things that I find the successful ones have in common:
1. Know why you’re becoming a digital nomad
The first key to a successful location independent lifestyle is getting your mind right. You should have a keen understanding of why you’re choosing this life. It’s nontraditional, and everyone thinks about going home and doing the easy thing occasionally, so it’s vital that you understand why you’re doing what you’re doing.
If you value freedom, want to travel more, or simply want to live more cheaply than in the U.S., then you might already have reasons to become a digital nomad.
On the flip side, if you enjoy the creature comforts of home and have never traveled to a place and thought, “Man, I wish I could just… live here”, then you might need to dig in to your ‘why’ a little bit more. Same goes for if you simply hate your office.
Your reason doesn’t matter as much as your conviction behind it. If you are truly interested in living a location independent lifestyle while earning enough to sustain it, then give it a shot. The worst thing that happens is you can go home and reset.
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2. Prepare for the emotional roller coaster
Depending on where you go, how long you stay there, the people you surround yourself with, and the work you do, becoming a digital nomad can take a huge emotional toll on you.
One day, you might be in LOVE with Rome. You don’t think you can ever get enough aperitivo and basilicas. Then, one day, you suddenly will realize how loud it is. You’ll get annoyed with people being so touchy with each other, and start looking for a way out.
Sometimes, digital nomads take on a new career when they hit the road. Many people have a sudden, crushing realization that they hate teaching English online or finding their own clients.
What I’m saying is, one bad shower can leave you really missing home. So, prepare for the ups and downs.
Bring a few comforts of home with you. Mine is my memory foam pillow and several bags of microwave popcorn. There’s nothing some snacks and a good night’s sleep can’t fix.
3. Ride the global economy
This is a major key to location independent success.
“Earn dollars. Live on pesos. Compensate in rupees.”
Tim Ferriss
When you take on a digital nomad lifestyle, you put yourself in a unique position to earn as much as you did in the states but experience twice the lifestyle. Hear me out:
Let’s say that I still lived in Dallas. In a shared apartment, I spent $1k a month on rent, $100 on utilities, $70 a week on groceries, $100 a month on car insurance, $40 a month on gas, and $400 a month dining out. Not including other little things, like going to sports games, ubers, and more, I easily spent about $3000 – $3500 a month.
Now, let’s consider another major city that expats love: Kuala Lumpur. I could live alone in a luxurious downtown apartment for $500 a month (comes with utilities and regular cleaning, too!). I’d spend about $30 a week on groceries, and maybe $200 a month dining out. I wouldn’t have a car, so ubers everywhere might cost a little more. Getting a car to the beach for the day costs about $40 per person. My life there would only cost about $2,000 a month if I wasn’t being frugal.
At my place in Morocco, breakfasts were prepared for me each day along with the other people living in my building.
These examples would be similar in other nomad hotspots including Playa del Carmen, Mexico; Tbilisi, Georgia; and in Bali, Indonesia.
Therefore, permitting that I earn the same amount in the U.S. as abroad, not only could I invest my extra money, I could choose to work less, therefore enjoying the places I’m visiting even more.
Riding the global economy means earning money in dollars, while living on cents.
A note on retirement and the global economy:
Being a digital nomad doesn’t mean you can’t afford to live in the U.S. Instead, it means that you’re choosing to live wehrever makes you happy. It’s still smart to invest for retirement.
A lot of people choose to retire outside of the U.S. However, it’s a heck of a lot cheaper to retire abroad. It’s worth considering a nomadic lifestyle, even in retirement.
4. Follow technology
Before becoming a digital nomad, I would seek out vacation spots that were off the grid. I’d use my PTO to go off into the mountains of Guatemala and not use my phone for a week. I got away from my work by getting away from technology. However, it’s a little bit different as a digital nomad.
Digital nomads don’t work from anywhere. They work from anywhere that has good WiFi.
Places like Asia and Southeast Asia are known for having some of the most advanced technology in the world. Not only that, but access to 4G internet and data plans are cheap.
If you’re just starting out, be sure to make sure that wherever you decide to go has strong WiFi. You can find this information by searching digital nomad forums on Reddit, looking on nomadlist.com, and searching for digital nomad blogs.
Work from Wi-Fi
5. Know when to stop working
This is a key to success for any remote worker, but especially for digital nomads.
Imagine going to your dream location. For the sake of imagination, let’s say it’s Bali. You arrive, set up shop, and get your backlog of work done from traveling. Then, you spend the next several days getting ahead on work. A new project pops up, and suddenly, you’re spending 10 hours a day in your room on the computer. NOT ideal.
As a remote worker, you have to know when to call it a day. Give yourself time or productivity limits, and stick to them. There’s no point in choosing a lifestyle for yourself and not following through on it.
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Many of us were recently thrown into the teleworking world, some for the first time. It wasn’t easy for people to figure out how to do it, and how to stay productive while working from home. While everyone’s experience with staying productive while telecommuting is different, there are three things that have been super helpful for me.
Telecommuting was awesome for me… until it wasn’t.
I started teleworking, or working remotely, about two years ago. My former company started a policy that allowed us to work from home one day per week, and I jumped on the opportunity. I used the day to get my work done more efficiently as well as get some things done around the house.
As weeks went on, I started to play with my work from home days a little bit more. I spent mornings getting work done in a local coffee shop and took calls in the afternoons. Some days, I’d go work from a friend’s place.
Then, after I quit my job and went out on my own, I was suddenly working from wherever there was WiFi without ANY sort of accountability. I began sleeping in, working until all hours, and sometimes getting on my computer while still in bed. I lost any sense of structure to my days.
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Top 3 ways to be productive while telecommuting
I realized early on that I needed to give my days some structure. Here are my top tips for people who want to be more productive while telecommuting:
1. Create a morning routine
Yes, I said it. Sticking to a morning routine is KEY to being productive while teleworking.
Whether you adhere to a miracle morning or simply commit to an alarm clock and simple morning routine, find something that works for you. It’s ok to start small.
I started by simply committing to drinking a full glass of water before 8:30 every day, no matter what. Then, I added 5 sun salutations before 8:30. Then, I bumped it up to 8 am. It goes on, but now I have a morning routine that has me in to ‘work mode’ by 9 every day.
2. Prioritize your day
Not only do successful work-from-homers prioritize their days, but they do it the day before. Let me give you an example.
My to-do lists are often scattered and have things added to them throughout the day. It leaves me feeling overwhelmed at the end of the day rather than accomplished. To combat this feeling, I rewrite my to-do list at the end of each day.
Before rewriting my list, I sort out what the most important things are. Then, I rewrite my list for the following day with the most important activities at the top of the list. Then, I make sure I have what I need to get the top 3 done the next day.
When I know the day before that I am set up for success the following day, I can rest easy and walk away from my work.
Working from Vedauvoo National Forest
3. Start the Pomodoro Technique
In short, the Pomodoro Technique is short work sprints followed by even shorter breaks. The work sprints are strict: no distractions, no exceptions. There are plenty of Google Chrome plugins that help with this, or you can simply set a timer.
I’m weak when it comes to my phone, so using a phone as a timer is no bueno for me. I use the Marinara plugin on Chrome and set a timer for 25 & 5 minutes. I work for 25 minutes, then get up and do something else for 5.
When I’ve prioritized my day, I simply start with the most important thing first and set 1-3 sprints aside to finish it. For example, I know that if I need to write an article today, I’ll set aside one sprint to write it and the second to refine it.
I pair the Pomodoro Technique with the Pareto Principle and Parkinson’s Law. They’re better explained here, but they essentially say that if you have a set time to get something done, you’ll get it done.
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If you’re in search of a great book, I have 10 recommendations for you. Since mid-March, I’ve read about 20 books. Not only that, but I make sure that at least half the books I read are by people of color, and at least half are by women. It leads to some interesting perspectives – and I can always stand to learn and grow from other people’s ideas! Here are the best books to read in any situation.
As you read through this, I’ll organize it by situation, then book. For example:
Situation
Book
Synopsis
Here are 10 of the books I recommend most right now:
I’ll be honest. I read this book, and the whole time I wished I had listened to it instead. Tiffany talks about growing up in South Central LA, her failed first marriage, and getting stoned with Will and Jada Smith. It’s a series of stories, but she has plenty of lessons built-in along the way. This would also make a great beach read.
The storyline of this books spans one family over 300 years. It starts in what is now Ghana and traces the descendants of an Asante woman through generations. This book expanded what I understood about parts of world history and how America was built. I finished this book 3 months ago and still have it on my brain.
An academic & political piece you’ll want to keep reading
This book is on my desk as I write this. Through stories, analogies, and her background as a civil rights litigator, Alexander describes the ‘prison pipeline’ and leaves detailed calls to action for people of any race. This book continues a much-needed conversation.
A book that will challenge your ethics… in a good way
Perhaps a perfect follow up to reading The New Jim Crow, this novel tells the story of a pair of newlyweds that go to visit the in-laws. The husband is accused of a crime he didn’t commit, and the story continues on through his years of incarceration and those following. Take what you think you know about the prison system and set it on the shelf as you read this book.
I started this one on a plane and was crying in the first 5 minutes. The author digs in to the power of all kinds of love, the desire to dream, and the meeting of the two. Perhaps I loved it only because I’d love to be able to write with as much passion and detail as Sejal Badani.
When I was in Oklahoma City earlier this year, I had a few conversations with artists that were also First Nations. They told me that this book is *it* amongst the First Nations people right now, regardless of tribe. While it wasn’t the best book all year, the stories in the book shed a captivating light on the ongoing trials in the indigenous community.
It was WILD to read this during COVID-19. It’s insane to me how the epidemic in the book started along the same lines as the current one – in China, spread via the air, NYC was hit hard… the parallels freaked me out a little bit. I’m hoping the real-life scenario will end better than the one in this book.
A book that will make you feel like a better person
This book is part memoir, part personal development. Through her stories, Glennon Doyle extracts ideas for the readers to discover. I found myself evaluating how I can trust myself better and serve others differently. It all comes down to the idea that: the braver we are, the luckier we get.
A book that will change the way you think about work
If I hadn’t read this book in college, I might be in a very different place now. It took everything I thought about retirement, a savvy career, and productivity and shoved it into a suitcase. I’ve long called this the entrepreneur’s bible, but it’s more than that. This book is required reading for anyone involved in any type of business. Employees, employers – everyone.
A psych thriller that not everyone has read already
Psych thrillers are everything right now, and I’d argue that this is one of the best. Taking place in London, a seemingly happy wife shoots her husband repeatedly one evening after work. The story is told from the perspective of the psychologist that takes care of her, and does not have the beginning, middle, or end that I was expecting.
Where to read these books:
I download almost all of my books on to my kindle via the Dallas Public Library. My library card gets me access to the Overdrive system. I can hold books, get on waiting lists, and more.
Additionally, I do book exchanges with friends. If you have a book you think I’d like, let me know. I have a few paperbacks I can send your way and we can do a little switcharoo.
Finally, I’ll occasionally buy books. You know, the old fashioned way. I just like reading a curated list, so I’m happier with the library than leaving myself to the mercy of local bookstores.
Here’s something I’ve noticed: So many people, especially women, behave as if they can’t do something if they aren’t doing it with someone. While desiring companionship is wonderful, it also creates a sense of fear when it comes to traveling alone.
Hitch Hiking, but not alone.
Solo traveling does NOT mean you’re alone.
Solo traveling, or independent traveling, just means that you’re in control of your time. Here is what I propose:
Reframe How You Think About Being Alone
In our culture, loneliness seems to have ties to self-worth. When we feel really isolated, we seem to think that we’re less-than. We get all wrapped up inside of our heads thinking that because we’re alone, nobody wants to be with us. Loneliness makes us feel undesirable.
I’m writing this during Corona, and I can see loneliness changing people. We are being left to feel our grief and anxiety and confusion alone in our living rooms. We feel alone in the world, so we reach out to technology to connect us. We Zoom to talk about our feelings, and we feel validated by group messages.
When I say ‘our culture’ I mean you. I mean the folks who turn to the internet for conversation. It’s not a bad thing. It just means that we’re all out here, feeling connected all of the time. It helps us to combat our loneliness.
Then the question becomes, even if we’re alone, are we really, you know, alone?
I traveled solo to Sweden, but met super cool people on a Couchsurfing tour. I wasn’t lonely OR alone.
There is a difference between solitude, loneliness, and being alone.
It can be super difficult to be alone. Heck, even I’m guilty of taking my phone into the bathroom with me. Why do I need to be connected in the bathroom?
I don’t, but I am.
I encourage you to play with solitude.
Get to know yourself by being alone. Even sit in loneliness for a while. It might not be hard during Corona, but it might also be super hard since we’re now more attached to our phones than ever before.
You can become stronger through loneliness.
And, here’s the thing. When it comes to traveling solo, I rarely feel lonely. In fact, I’m rarely alone.
Not only that but the more that I’m alone, the more I come into myself; I find my center. I become friends with my solitude. We’re tight. We challenge each other. Together, my solitude, my independence, my fears, my travels, and I become stronger. We move each other forward.
Take that a step further: When was the last time you were happy alone? Do you know how to be happy alone?
These musings are the number one reason why people tell me they don’t want to travel solo: They’re afraid of being lonely.
As we settle into different levels of self-isolation, this question might be easier to answer than ever before. However, that’s not what I’m asking.
I want you to identify when you were not just without people, but not reachable. A time when you’ve stopped any sort of one or two-way communication with the outside world: no scrolling on facebook, no ability for someone to reach into your mental space.
Maybe your phone was off in another room and you were reading. Perhaps all you did was leave your phone in the living room while you went to the bathroom.
Was it in the last week? Longer? Were you happy?
Why People Don’t Travel Solo
When people tell me that they couldn’t travel alone, they typically give me one of three objections: They don’t know where to start the solo travel process, they don’t know how to plan a trip, and they think that they don’t want to be lonely.
If you’ve been reading my other writing for a while, you’ve probably learned that I don’t spend a lot of time alone despite traveling solo. To combat being alone, I :
Stay in hostels so I can be social with other guests
Take group tours or join classes to meet people
When solo in northern Israel, I met this girl. She and a friend were out taking photos, and they kind of borrowed me and decided I was their friend for the hour.
You Don’t Have to Learn Before You Go
Solo travel is something that I don’t think I learned to do intentionally. I did it a lot before I realized I’d done it.
I remember telling a friend a couple of years ago that I was planning my first solo travel experience. She looked at me baffled. In fact, she told me I’d been doing it for years. “Sure,” I said, “But I mean like really going somewhere on my own”.
A Couple of Quick Stories
Let me tell you about the times I didn’t realize I’d solo traveled.
After freshman year of college, I had the opportunity to teach English in France for the summer. I went not knowing anyone, but knew that I’d be with a bunch of like-minded English speakers all summer.
I went on study abroad to Cyprus as the only person from my university. I didn’t know anyone on the program, but I knew there were 70 other people who would only be in Cyprus for a semester, so we’d probably become friends.
I went to Israel and Palestine for two weeks knowing that some friends’ families would help me out when I was there. I had people to lean on, so I didn’t see it as going solo.
In Hong Kong, I traveled solo but Couch Surfed. A stranger became my saving grace while there. Story here
How to be happy alone:
As in non-traveling life, making friends is weird. However, it’s typically easier when traveling if you play your cards right.
In this video, I outline how to make friends while traveling. The internet is riddled with blogs and tips, but here’s the thing: when you’re traveling, you have more in common with the person next to you than not.
Think about it. The person next to you has likely come from a similar place, and something similar drew them there. They’re also away from home and likely looking for someone to share the joy of traveling with. A simple comment on their travel gear can kick off a day of camaraderie or at least some interesting stories.
I know I’m oversimplifying it. I’m basically saying, “Well, then just don’t be alone!”. It’s not that easy. However, if you go out of your way to meet people, you will. Here are a few ideas:
Stay in group housing such as hostels. Many have single rooms but common areas full of people looking to meet others, and some even host events for guests to do things together.
Go on group tours. This can be 7-day tours or activities for a few hours in the afternoon at your destination.
Hang out in tourist areas. It’s ok to read a book in the park or stay at a restaurant a little longer.
Use technology. Apps like meetup.com and Couchsurfing have meetups of all kinds all around the globe.
“Alone” On a beach in Morocco
How Alone Do You Want To Be?
This is a real question. I have friends who go off on ‘think weeks’. They lock themselves up somewhere far from society and turn their phones and TV’s off and are intentional about their thoughts and actions.
Other friends go on cruises for singles in hopes of spending lots of time with other people. This is their idea of being alone.
Other friends show up to motorcycle rides alone in hopes of making future biking friends.
Here’s the truth nugget: If you want to meet lots of people but go lock yourself in a cabin in the woods, you’re going to have an awful solo trip. If you want to meet lots of people but stay at a hostel near the woods or a campground with lots of community activities, you might have the best ever solo trip. It’s up to you.
It really comes down to effort and mindset. So, let’s talk about mindset.
